Abortion has for a long time been a taboo. It is something people do not like talking about. It angers many when it happens. According to the kenyan guidelines, abortion is unacceptable unless the mother is in fire danger. This is to mean, if the pregnancy is not gotten rid of, it might endanger the life of the mother.
Men have had a difficult time trying to know if the woman they are dating has ever aborted. This is because the ladies show no signs of capability to know that. Some men also try getting their wives pregnant and the ladies end up aborting without their consent. This is so wrong. Today we look at how a man can know if his lady has aborted their baby.
1. You can tell if a lady has ever aborted by simply sitting her down and having a comfortable talk. Engage her on what she thinks about it and if she could ever for whatever reason do it. It is most likely that the lady would lie but there are also chances that if you use reverse psychology well, she would admit to having done it before.
2. You can also tell a lady has had an abortion if she looks at young kids and breaks into tears for no apparent reason. Sometimes they feel like they did wrong.
They regret the act and when they look at the kids, they remember their kid would have been that age too. Those memories do not let them have peace completely. Also note that some women are so strong they can have no attachment with the act. They will look at kids and remember none of those things.
3. Befriend her close friends. Women have a tendency of speaking up especially when they need not to. For instance, if you befriend her friends and make them feel comfortable sharing with you, they might leak the secret to you. There are higher chances friends will tell you the truth. They will even tell you who was responsible for it and when it happened. Women are their own worst enemies they say.