We have seen situations whereby a man would date a woman for many years, and at the end of the day they never got married. This situation has caused so many problems between men and women.
The true cause of this problem which some men have refused to talk about is that there are some qualities they desire in a woman. Some men are also guilty of the fact that they keep searching for the kind of character they desire in a very endowed and beautiful body.
Bare in mind that there are some characters you may not find in a woman whose body is very endowed and beautiful because humans are not perfect. Make no mistake about that. Know what you want and where to get it.
With that been said, I bring you ten things most men look for in a woman before marrying her.
Talking of respect, do not think that because you greet your man everyday then you have respected him, no. Disrespect comes in different forms. Taking some decisions by yourself without letting your man into it is disrespect. No man is ready to settle down with a disrespectful woman. It kills their spirits and makes them feel that you cannot be trusted. If they should marry you, you can as well take a decision that will put them in trouble without them even knowing it.
Of course majority of men likes good food. It’s being said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. When a woman cooks well, no matter how far a man is, he must surely come home to eat. So if you are a lady who doesn’t know how to cook, then i think it will be very hard for some men to marry you. I said some, and not all. Other men can tolerate a woman who can’t cook for the sake of love…..go and learn how to cook before someone else takes your man with good food.
Aha! Even the bible condemned this one. It is better for a man to stay on top of a roof than to stay in a house with a nagging woman. What most men desires most in their lives is rest of mind. You cannot be a stressful, and nagging woman who complains about everything and expect a man to marry you; it won’t work. So if you are a nagging type, you better try and change your ways before It is too late.
Most women always have the thought that in as much as they are good in bed, then they are good to go. Pay attention woman!, this is 21st century. Nobody is ready to marry a liability for a wife. You must develop yourself to add values in a man’s life if you want him to propose. Do not think that a man is ready to keep you as his wife if all you do is eat and gossip. You don’t have any business idea, you have nothing to write home about. Whenever your man wants advise, he always gets it from outside and you are there eating and gossiping. Of course, he will dump you.
5, Dress code
This is also one of the things men look for in a woman before marrying her. You would agree with me that some women just don’t know fashion, even when there is money. You don’t have to buy expensive clothes for you to look sharp. Your men always go out and they see how women of your class are looking sharp even with lesser money. Always try to look presentable so that when your man sees you, he will have no reason to look outside.
6, Handling Of Money
Because I talked about fashion and looking good does not mean that you will now start buying one top for ten thousand. As a woman, you must know how to manage money because you are your man’s deputy. You are the one who will manage his home when he finally made you his wife. If you are the type that spends money recklessly, then sorry, your boyfriend won’t marry you because he will be scared of his finance.
7, Anger Issues
This is one of the dangerous things men look out for in a woman before marrying her. No man is ready to marry a woman who cannot control herself when she is angry. Anger can make you do things that you will always end up regretting. People with anger issues are always delusional. They always assume negative things, and act as their assumption permits them. If you are having anger issues, then you better change, else you will remain a single lady. Nobody is ready to get stabbed because of your false assumptions.
As common this word may seems, it is very rare to find. Not everyone who says “i love you” actually does. It is much easier for you to say that you love someone than to prove that actual love to that person. You cannot say you love a man and you are going behind his back to cheat on him simply because he cannot satisfy your animal urge. You may think he doesn’t know that you are cheating on him, he does. Many boyfriends don’t confront their girlfriends when they cheat, they just leave when the time is right. So if you are cheating on your boyfriend thinking that he won’t find out, don’t get angry when he finally left you for another woman in future.
Just like love, this word is also very easy to say but rare to show. You just don’t suspect a man because you saw him in a restaurant or a bar talking to another lady. Men are like hunters, they are the one’s who go into the bush to hunt for meat for you to be fed. If you are a lady who cannot trust, and always monitors your boyfriend, then you are in for a dive towards a rock. No man is ready to marry a woman who don’t trust in them…..it is dangerous.