Just as there are various species of dogs, there are varieties of men. Although all men are said to me dogs, it is worth knowing that all men are not the same. There are three different kinds of men.
Knowing the category in which your man falls and molding him into your ideal man is the big deal. A lot of women have challenges I’m their relationships because they don’t care about knowing who their men are not to talk of finding out how to handle them.
First of all, you need to know that men often find rest in relationships where there is comfort. No man wants to be treated like an alien in a relationship. Just as women, every man wants to be accepted for who he is and treated as is befitting.
All three kinds of men have their own ways of living. Failure to identify the category of your man and knowing how to handle handle him may lead you into so much trauma. Here are the three kinds of men.
1. The Faithful
This type of a man always has the image of an ideal woman in his mind. He is always looking for that one person to whom he will give his all. He is often afraid to profess his love to the woman he has true feelings for. Often times, he is inexperienced when it comes to relationships.
Such men are highly sensitive especially when they fall in love. For this reason, they are often not treated well when they fall for the wrong people. They can sacrifice anything just to be with whoever they love.
To keep such men, never make your presence hostile to them. When they sense hostility, they tend to swallow in the pain because they had committed a greater portion of themselves into the relationship. When they reach a point where they can’t take it anymore, you become a nuisance to them. They then become passive to most of your hostilities and their love for you begins to shake.
However, they are always optimistic that things will gradually work out and they’ll get back their women. Such men are very hard to find so when you get hold of one, never push him away. All you need is to reciprocate his love for you to him.
2. The Unfortunate
He is one who always wishes to be with just one woman but finds it difficult to do so because of his inability to control his attention for other women. Women like him so much and he often falls into temptation, often regretting the act afterwards.
To keep such men, you first of all need to accept them for who they are. Don’t attempt to drive the women around them away. However, position yourself in such a way that your man finds it easy to confess his mistakes to you. When this happens over time, he’ll begin to make known to you the women with whom he is likely to cheat. And that’s the turning point.
Plant yourself in his mind to the extent that whenever he gets to that point, he’ll be like, “No! I can’t do this anymore!”. This is going to take some time but if you really want to make him your man, train him to be addicted to you and you’ll have him forever.
3. The Cheat
He is whom we call a play boy. Sticking to one woman is a no no for him. He is the typical dog of all men. Regardless of how beautiful and good you are, you are not enough for him. He finds joy in his ego. And such ego is built on how many women he has conquered.
If you don’t have a heart, you cannot be with such men. But the thing is, inasmuch as they live such flamboyant and unfaithful lives, they often look out for that one person to call a wife. They are into women who are mostly cheats but they watch out for one faithful woman to whom they can commit their love but very often, not to stop cheating though.
In order to make you him yours, you need to have a big heart with so much patience. Treat him differently from the other women in his life. An ordinary woman will often bring quarrels to him over his affair with other women. Don’t. Let him know that you know what he does and you know he can stop but it’s going to be difficult.
When he begins to see you as so different from the others, his inward instincts will be drawn towards you. Then, once in a while, distance yourself. He’ll miss you so he’ll be so concerned. Then suddenly, you come back. Such irregularities will get him thinking. After a while, let him know that you kinda can’t stand it anymore. Then wait for the magic.
If men are indeed dogs and dogs can be trained, then my dear, men can be trained. When you train a man to heed to your voice, owning him becomes way too easy.