On several occasions, i happened to have met males who find it difficult to make a woman fall in love. This is not surprising considering the fact that many men perceive ladies to be mere artefacts of beautification and pleasure hence failing to accord them the kind of treatment women really deserve. I can not say i live in the heart of women but i may just be the best guy to tell you how to make a woman fall in love.
The very first and foremost step towards making a woman fall in love with you is to be a man.
Every woman or perhaps every straight woman wants to hangout with a “real man”. In being a real man however, do not be autocratic, selfish, insensitive, overconfident or wicked. Your potential girlfriend must feel safe in your company even if that company lasts for a minute.
Secondly, don’t be in a hurry!
Waiting is undeniably the most difficult part of every bargain yet good things they say, comes to those that wait. Even the greatest men in history failed when subjected to simple explorations of waiting. David; a biblical character failed when God asked him to not build the temple. Instead of waiting for his son to do the work, Solomon’s father gathered almost everything that will be needed for the temple; yes he did about 60% of the work. Moses, Jacob, Adam and many more failed the test of “waiting”. it is this same test that i am employing you to pass.
Let her be in charge.
Women naturally want to be in charge. they want to talk when they want to and they want to listen when they feel like listening. Women want to be in charge of your life even if you are just a friend neighbor. They want to be “obeyed” when the ask you to trim your hair, change your wardrobe, carry their water or even walk them to the “provision store” next street. However, as you allow her take the wheels of leadership, you must be careful not to lose yourself and become any less of a man.
Never try to buy her over. But for the strength of a man, women are the most complete humans and they definitely don’t need artificial things to falling love. That however does not mean you should not take your date out sometimes or help out if they need help.
Under no circumstance must you take advantage of her. Even if she visits you in your bedroom, respect her choices.
Do not be a showoff in front of her. Let her get to know you by herself (gradually).
Never judge her by what people say! If you must judge her, it should be based on what you have seen with your own eyes and felt with your own hands.
Be a gentleman but also be “silly” and funny when with her.
Never disrespect her parents or her family. That will just be the end of your love story even before the first page gets it’s first ink.
Fight for her if necessary, but rebuke her in private if she was wrong.
If she is angry, be silent; you don’t want your Xbox and laptop to get broken. If she is happy, be genuinely happy for her but the most important time to be with her is when she is sad or moody. Give her a shoulder, wipe her tears and encourage her to stand on her own two (2) feet.
Never miss a chance to complement her beauty. do not flatter her with lies; tell her the truth.
Care for her, be with her and for her but give her time to process why you are doing what you are doing and observe closely as she does.
Once she got the picture, go all out and tell her how much you love her. Be romantic but moderately and be gentle. Sometimes, a woman might say yes but may still not be in love. it is therefor important to worship any woman who said yes to you and make her feel like a queen.
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